if gender was a person 

i’d hug them 

say thank you for being so spacious

enough to wrap several arms in

enough to engulf 

and drown

and breathe in 




if gender was a person 

i’d make them dinner every night

and remind myself that feeding a complexity 

is the same as filling my own mouth 

by _____________



In the autumn of 2020, we put out a callout for non binary people to answer some questions about their experience.  From the many replies,  we chose 10 people to respond to a set of questions in a way that made sense for them. These are the questions we asked...